On Second Thought
First impressions are said to last forever, but oftentimes first dates happen with the idea of setting yours and his best foot forward. Thus, in actuality, the second date will show you a whole lot different perspective on him since he will be more comfortable letting you see his other side that may not be as flawlessly presented as before. What you find on second date, whether you are impressed or disappointed about it is a more realistic preview of him than how he dealt with you on the first date. Some of the things that you should focus on finding out on the second date includes how mature he really is, his real styling taste in clothes, and if he is really into you or not.
Planning is a good sign of maturity, therefore on the second date you should observe if he has still planned for it like the first one or he just lazily made a rendezvous with you without even a having an idea about the entire night. If he keeps on telling you to go where you like, order what you like or pick what movie you like, and the night goes on with what you just like is a sign of a low level of maturity and high shades of indecisiveness.
Most men dress to impress on their first dates and their outfit are oftentimes chosen with the help of a girl buddy. Therefore, in the second date, you will get to see his real style or if his deficient of it.
Most men do not remember every small detail that you tell them on the first date, but if he brings up a detail as tiny as your childhood hobby or your most unforgettable moment in high school, then there is a great chance that he really likes you because he thinks about you.